You’ve planned the perfect party: the entertainer’s en route, the cupcakes are frosted to perfection, and your birthday child is ready to sparkle and shine. But wait… what about their sibling?

The one giving you the side-eye because they’re not the star today.

Yep — we see it all the time! Whether it’s a little sibling trying to sneak into the spotlight, or an older one sulking in the corner with a “this is so boring” face — siblings at parties can be tricky to navigate. But when managed with a sprinkle of creativity and a whole lotta heart, they can go from background noise to party-enhancing legends!

Here are our Supa Dupa top tips to keep the sibling vibes smooth and the party magic flowing:

👯‍♀️ 1. Give Them a Role (AKA: The Secret to Peace)
Kids love feeling needed. Give a sibling a special job to do — handing out party bags, writing names on cups as guests arrive, helping set up the cupcake decorating station, or even keeping the playlist going. Whether they’re 4 or 14, a purposeful role transforms them from “bored observer” to “VIP helper.” Bonus: it keeps their hands busy and hearts happy!

🎒 2. Create a ‘Sibling Surprise’ Pack
If the sibling is too young to be left out but too old for games like “Musical Statues,” pop together a little pack just for them. Think a balloon, some stickers, or a quirky snack. Nothing big — just enough to say, “We see you, superstar.”

🎤 3. Let Them Be an Assistant to the Entertainer
At Supa Dupa, our entertainers love involving older siblings in the fun! Whether it’s helping with a magic trick or calling out dance moves, giving them a little spotlight moment can fill their cup (without stealing the birthday kid’s thunder).

💡 4. Set Expectations Early
Before the party starts, have a quick chat. Let them know that today is about celebrating their sibling — but there’s still room for them to feel special too. A little acknowledgment can go a long way in heading off the green-eyed grumbles.

🎉 The Takeaway? Everyone Loves to Feel Included
Parties are all about creating magical memories — and that includes the whole fam. A few simple tweaks and thoughtful touches can turn potential party friction into a smooth, joy-filled celebration where everyone leaves with a smile (and a cupcake).

Because at the end of the day? When siblings feel seen, the whole party scene runs like a dream. ✨

Got party planning questions or sibling scenarios you’re unsure how to handle?
We’ve seen it all — from confetti crises to toddler takeovers! Email us at party@supadupa.com.au or DM us over on Instagram for expert advice and a whole lot of party love. 💌